What is a friend?

There is one thing that is almost certain about humanity.  There will always be people that will like you and there will be people that don't like.   People come in all shapes and sizes, and the world is becoming more and more diverse than ever before, which makes it harder for people to find common bonds and interests, but there is always a friend for everyone.  Even the most lone wolf type people out there, there is always a potential friendship awaiting for them.  In today's society, I don't think people will ever be a true loner - it is almost impossible unless you are placed on another planet.  But even if you were placed on another planet, you'll eventually make some relationships with the possible beings that are on  that world.

It looks like true friendship is starting to die down and everyone has a different philosophy on friendships.  What I consider a friend is simply someone that you like.  There is something that you like about that person that makes you want to be a friend.  But it is getting harder and harder to find people that are true friends because of the increasing individuality and diversity in the world.  Friends are based on common bonds and the more you have in common with people or in a society, the more likely you'll become friends with someone.  A friend could be simply someone who shares the same neighborhood as you, or went to school with you, or possibly grew up with similar experiences.  A friend could also be the total opposite as well but you need each other.  Maybe a loud person needs someone to quiet you down or maybe a messy person need someone to make them neater.

I have a belief of what a true friend is and what a not so true friend.  Some friends you party and tell dirty jokes with you  are not your true friends.  A true friend is someone that cares about you in the inside, not the outside.  You may not share the same interests or tastes, but that person is there for you when you need them.

I always thought friends were people that you hang around with and have good times with.  They may seem like your friends, but I think deep down you are going to get sick of this.  A true friend is someone that probably doesn't see you everyday, or someone that you may not even see for years, but out of the blue, they just come up when they need you.

College is a place where you make friends.  You make your fake friends, which are more for popularity or something that look good on Facebook photos, and you have your real friends, which may be that annoying roommate you are having that you barely have many common bonds or interests, but at least the person kicked your butt when you are making a mess or help you when your dorm room is on fire.

The true element of a true friend is probably altruism - which is helping someone else when we are in need.  We are focused too much on common interests, but if we base out friendships on altruism and thinking of other people , that world will be a better place.