Tuesday, December 20, 2011

Goals

Every now and then, I should map out a timeline of my future.  Facebook has released the timeline platform, which shows your life in your past in a digital format, but I should think of my future timeline and that is by goals.  You can't change the past but you can change the future, but it is best to live in the present.  Living in the present will just let you just float around and go along with instincts, which is fine, but I think I need to have some path as well.

I value many things, but my most important value is education.  I need to get educated so I can get a career, so I can get a good start on my life.  It will be awesome to earn my own money and buy my own things; it gives me a great feeling of freedom that I haven't had before which will help me develop as an individual.  I also value getting a job because I need to get that money, but my most important value is family and that what drives me.  I want to start a family and have a lot of kids.

But there are many steps among the way to fulfill that dream of having a large family and it starts with education.  I need to educated myself so I can have a career, since you need to have a steady income to own a home, transportation, and all the things that are needed to raise children.  I also need to find a wife, and I'll have to go into "love mode" but I can't find any wife.  It is not all about physical attraction; it is all about someone who wants to have a lot of kids and have family values.  I am a fan of larger family, but I see there are many people that want 2 kids and that's it, or only able to have 2 kids.  Population control is a bunch of BS.

There is a reason why I want a large family.  I think it is just cool and I think large families seem to work out better than small families.  Having a lot of kids needs a lot of money, but the kids stick together as a domino effect which makes it easier to raise.  But the main thing, I am an only child and I am doing the opposite effect.

I am going to follow through my family aspiration, but the first thing I need to do is to get educated so I can actually have enough finance to support a family.  Families cost money and I need to have a job to support a family.  But I should learn what I should do during the day when I am in "work mode" so I can enjoy having a job so I can support it.  There is a lot of planning in this game of life.

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