More dating advice

I have been learning about dating and relationships in school, and I have come to the conclusion of some facts with the dating world.  The first thing I have to understand is - love cannot be forced. I can't just wake up in the morning one day saying "Today I am going to get a girlfriend".  This is great motivation but it is something that can't happen.  Love is an emotion just like happiness and sadness.  When your dog dies,you are sad.  When you won a million bucks, you are for sure happy.  You can't really force emotions - emotions involve a different part of the brain and you can't force it with logic and planning.

Love is something that can't be turned on and off by a switch.  Love is something that comes naturally and it usually comes at the most unexpected moments with the unexpected people.

Before you can fall in love, you'll have to understand what love means.  According to the dictionary, "love is an tender affection for somebody, a desire for someone, to like someone very much." The basis of love is kindness - you care for the person.

It is the same thing when a song you love comes on the radio.  Everyone has  a different taste in music and every once in a while, you get that song that you have to "stop and listen to it." There is something about that song you love - it may be the lyrics, the harmonies, the rythhmn, the cool instruments, the message in the song.  The same thing will happen with a person - that will find something about you that they will want to "stop and get more of it".

You got to show some desirable traits to get people to love you and that is by loving yourself.  There is a lot of time and energy put in these songs that you just have to "stop and listen to" - the same thing is with making someone fall in love with you.  Everyone has different tastes, just like different tastes in music.  You should really show off what you got and someone will just hit it off with you just like a song that you have to stop and listen to.  The same thing is what that person - it may be the sense of humor, courage, strength, determination, intellect, work ethic - blah blah blah.  Usually the people writing these songs put a lot of passion and love in their music, which is the same thing you should do to attract people to fall in love with you.  Usually the songs we love are not mediocre - there is something about that song that makes you love that song.

So this is what  I should do.  I should trying make myself a better, more desireable person and let the love spread.  Someone will hit it off with me just like a song you have to stop and listen to, so I should work on making myself a more desireable person.