Friday, June 8, 2012

My insights on girls

Girls are one of these amazing things - God has created girls for a reason and the reason is to create someone to create more humans.  Girls are the giver of life and they are the nurturers - they are created to become mothers and grandmothers; they are excellent create.  It will be hard to image a world without girls or femininity - we won' exist and everything is going to be very bland, without color and beauty, and everything will be black or white.  We are all going to be robotic and nothing will be exciting - girls create culture and they create anything in the world to be beautiful.  We have mother nature and that creates everything in the natural world.

I am your typical guy and I do like girls - I have never "dated" any girl officially, unless I count a few flavas of the week.  It what I consider a date these days, but I have a lot of platonic relationships with girls.  It looks like in elementary school I got along very well with girls - even though I might not be attracted to many girls, I had made many friends with girls.  You really can have friends with both girls or guys; you don't have to have complete segregation between girls and guys.  They are human beings like anyone else and if you know the right thing to talk about, they can be great friends.

I think the best way to get friends is to start with platonic relationships - they get rid of the stress and it seems like I am having platonic relationships a lot of time.  This is very common when you have other girls that are single or in relationships.  It seems like when I start talking to girls, they might have a sexual, emotional, or romantic attraction.  Some girls I don't have an attraction too but they make great friends.

Girls do make great friends - they are not like "you don't date or else".  They are human beings like anyone else and actually girls have about 99% of the same genetic code as guys.  Technically, guys can grow their hair out and if you get fat, you can get breasts.  The only thing that guys and girls are different that guys have the guy parts and the girls have the girl parts, and we all love and honor our parts, which is making the idenity.  Girls can actually even chop their hair off like guys and girls can even have low voices like guys - they can have athletic ability, intellectual, and musical ability just like anyone else  - there is no divide between certain abilities in girls and guys.

I have been havinf friends with girls and I probably have some romance as well.  But it looks like romance gives me an emotion so strong that basically makes me shy away from girls - that emotion and the shyness might be hear to protect myself, and God might not be letting me talk to that girl with the shyness.  If it looks like I can confortably talk to that girl like nothing, this might be the girl for me.  Girls start getting weird ideas and they are all looking for boys.

I am probably going to get a chance of romance and sex - romance and sex will be cool and it will be the greatest thing out there.  It seems like I have fantasies about the opposite sex and I should be.  There is one for me.  Probably a one that looks like me and acts like me - is me.




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